July 17, 2023

8 Tips to Get the Most Out of Your Therapy Experience

Therapy can be a powerful tool to help you overcome challenges and improve your mental health. However, it’s not always easy to know how to make the most of your therapy experience. Whether you’re a first-time therapy-goer or a seasoned veteran, there are things you can do to get the most out of your sessions. In this blog post, we’ll discuss some tips and strategies for maximizing the benefits of therapy. Here are eight questions to ask yourself to get the most out of your therapy journey. 

1. Do I feel comfortable with my therapist?

One of the most important factors that will determine the success of your therapy experience is finding the right therapist. Take the time to research your options and find someone who you feel comfortable talking to. Look for a therapist who specializes in the areas you want to work on, and consider their qualifications, experience, and approach to therapy. If you are looking for an online therapist, consider reading this blog post to understand the pros and cons of online therapy. 

2. What are my therapy goals?

Before you start therapy, it’s helpful to set clear goals for what you want to achieve. What specific outcomes are you hoping for? What changes do you want to see in your life? Communicate these goals to your therapist so that you can work together to create a plan for achieving them. In certain circumstances, we might have a difficult time coming up with goals for therapy, it’s very important to collaborate with your therapist and formulating a treatment that will help you. For example, when suffering from depression, we might feel overwhelmed, and lack motivation to do anything. In such circumstances you can work with your therapist to formulate helpful goals for progress.

3. Are my goals realistic?

It’s essential to keep in mind that therapy isn’t a quick fix for your problems. It’s a process that takes time, energy, and patience. Work with your therapist to develop a plan with realistic goals that you can achieve. This will help you stay motivated and focused during your therapy sessions. Your therapist will help you break down your issues and develop a plan to overcome them. Celebrate small victories along the way, as this will help keep you motivated to keep going.

4. Am I being open and honest with my therapist?

Therapy is a safe space to be open and honest about your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Be willing to share your thoughts and feelings with your therapist, even if they are difficult or uncomfortable. Remember that your therapist is there to help you, and they can only do so if you’re honest with them. Consider asking yourself the reasons preventing you to be more open and vulnerable in the session. 

5. Am I taking action between sessions?

While therapy sessions are an important part of the process, the real work happens outside of the therapy room. To get the most out of your therapy experience, be sure to take action between sessions. This could include practicing new coping strategies, trying new behaviors, or reflecting on your progress. We often remind our clients that even a small action between sessions can make a huge difference in reducing symptoms of anxiety and depression.

6. Am I taking an active role in therapy?

Therapy isn’t a one-way street. It’s essential to take an active role in your therapy sessions by participating actively. During your therapy sessions, your therapist may ask you questions or provide you with tools to help you work through your issues. Be engaged and ask questions if you don’t understand something. Take notes, practice what you learn, and participate in homework assignments suggested to you by your therapist.


Also, don’t be afraid to ask your therapist to clarify if something does not make sense to you. Part of providing a supportive and learning environment is that your therapist is patient and willing to revisit anything you have discussed in the past.

7. Am I committed to therapy?

Consistency is essential when it comes to therapy. The more consistent you are with your therapy sessions, the more progress you’ll be able to make. Your therapist will work with you to create a schedule that works for you, so make sure you’re committed to attending all of your therapy appointments. If you miss a session, don’t be discouraged. Work with your therapist to reschedule as soon as possible.


Another reason that prevents some people from attending their session is avoiding certain topics that makes them feel uncomfortable. In these situations, you can ask your therapist to take a break from certain topics and providing such feedback can help you be more in charge of your therapy experience. Remember, avoiding therapy sessions does not solve the issues at hand. It’s helpful to provide your therapist with accurate information so they are aware of what triggers and discomforts you are experiencing in your work together. Consider reading this blog post if you are starting therapy and attending your first session

8. Am I celebrating small wins?

Finally, don’t forget to celebrate your progress. Even small wins are worth acknowledging and celebrating. Acknowledge the progress you’ve made and remember that every step forward is a step in the right direction. Clients who track and notice their progress tend to feel more invested in therapy and they are more likely to feel encouraged with their progress. Journaling your progress can help remember small wins. 

Therapy can be a valuable tool for improving your mental health, but it’s not always easy to know how to get the most out of your therapy experience. By finding the right therapist, setting clear & realistic goals, being open and honest, taking action between sessions, showing consistency, and celebrating your wins, you can make the most of your therapy experience and achieve the outcomes you’re hoping for. Remember to be patient and kind with yourself throughout the process, and don’t hesitate to ask your therapist for support along the way.

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