Services › Grief & Loss Therapy
Grief & Loss Therapy in Wheaton, Illinois Grief is not something you get over. It is something you learn to carry.
Whether you have lost a person, a relationship, a job, or a version of your life you expected, loss leaves a mark that does not follow a timeline. Therapy can give you a space to feel it, make sense of it, and find a way forward at your own pace.
A 15-minute phone call with our care coordinator to talk through questions, insurance, and fit. Not a therapy session, and no commitment.

We walk alongside you
Sometimes the people around us, with the best of intentions, encourage us to move on before we are ready. That can leave you feeling alone in it, even when you are surrounded by others. Therapy is different. It is a space where nothing about your grief is too much, too slow, or too late.
We all grieve at our own pace. For some that is a few months, for others it is years, and there is no schedule you are failing to meet. We journey with you to honor your loss in a way that fits you, whether that is in person in Wheaton or through online therapy across Illinois.
Grief wears many faces
Loss is not only about death. It shows up in endings, diagnoses, the loss of a pet, and the quiet disappearance of a future you counted on. Whatever you are grieving, it belongs here.
Death of a loved one
The person who anchored your days is gone, and ordinary moments now carry their absence in ways you did not expect.
Anticipatory grief
You are grieving someone who is still here, watching an illness or decline take them piece by piece.
Complicated or prolonged grief
Months or years have passed, but the pain has not loosened its grip the way everyone said it would.
Loss of a relationship
Divorce, a breakup, or estrangement can be its own kind of death, even without a funeral to mark it.
Loss of health or identity
A diagnosis, a disability, or a role you can no longer fill can leave you mourning the life you had planned.
Sudden or traumatic loss
An accident or an unexpected death. Shock and grief tangle together and need careful, gentle care.
Not sure where your loss fits? That is okay, grief rarely stays in one category. We work with clients from Wheaton, Winfield, Glen Ellyn, Carol Stream, West Chicago, Warrenville, Lombard, Glendale Heights, and Naperville, and from communities across DuPage and Kane County, with online therapy available throughout Illinois.
Care that meets the loss
There is no single right way to treat grief. We draw on approaches with real evidence behind them and match them to what you are carrying, not the other way around.
Acceptance & commitment therapy
Make room for the pain instead of fighting it, and slowly reconnect with what still matters to you.
Cognitive behavioral therapy
Gently work with the guilt, the should-haves, and the stuck thoughts that grief so often brings.
EMDR
For sudden or traumatic loss, helps the nervous system process what the mind keeps replaying.
Internal Family Systems
Meet the different parts of you that grieve, protect, and carry on, with compassion for each one.
The method matters less than the fit. We start where you are.
What if you could carry it differently?
Healing does not mean forgetting, and it does not mean getting over anyone. It means the weight becomes something you can carry, with room in your life for living again. Progress looks different for everyone, and it is rarely a straight line, but in grief therapy you can:
- Understand where you are in your grief, and that there is no wrong way to be there
- Put language to the pain so it feels less isolating
- Build coping tools for the hardest days, like anniversaries and the holidays
- Move through guilt, anger, or numbness without getting stuck in it
- Honor your loss while slowly reconnecting with daily life
- Find moments of meaning, and even gratitude, again without guilt
You are not leaving them behind. You are learning to bring them with you.
How to start therapy with us
Three steps, and the first one takes fifteen minutes.



Get matched with the right therapist, get answers to your billing questions, and check availability. No hassle, no pressure.
Questions about grief & loss
If your question is not here, we are glad to talk it through during a free 15-minute intake call.
What is grief and loss therapy?
Grief and loss therapy is a space to process the emotional weight of a significant loss, whether that is the death of someone you love, the end of a relationship, a serious diagnosis, or another major life change. Your therapist helps you make sense of what you are feeling, find ways to cope, and slowly carry the loss in a way that lets you keep living. It is not about rushing you through stages or fixing your grief.
How do I know if I need grief therapy?
There is no threshold of pain you have to reach first. If your grief is getting in the way of daily life, sleep, or your relationships, if the sadness feels stuck, or if the people around you have moved on while you have not, those are all good reasons to reach out. You can also simply want support. Wanting a steady, private place to grieve is reason enough.
Is it normal to still grieve a loss from years ago?
Completely. Grief does not run on a clock, and there is no expiration date on missing someone. It is common for feelings to resurface around anniversaries, holidays, or big milestones, sometimes many years later. Older grief that was never fully processed can also rise to the surface when a new loss arrives. Therapy can help you tend to it whenever it shows up.
What kinds of loss do you help with?
More than people often expect. We walk alongside adults through bereavement, divorce or a breakup, estrangement, pregnancy and infant loss, the loss of a pet, job loss, and the grief that comes with a diagnosis or a major change in identity. If your loss is not on this list, it still counts. Reach out and we can talk about how we can help.
What is the difference between grief and depression?
They overlap, which is part of why this gets confusing. Grief tends to come in waves tied to your loss, with moments of relief in between, while depression is a more constant heaviness that colors everything. Grief can also turn into, or sit alongside, depression. If you are not sure which you are experiencing, a therapist can help you sort it out, and we also offer depression therapy when that is the better fit.
What if I am not ready to talk about my loss?
That is okay, and more common than you might think. You do not have to walk in and relive the hardest moments on day one. Therapy moves at your pace. Some sessions are simply about getting through the day in front of you, not the loss itself. We build trust first, and you stay in control of what you share and when.
How long does grief therapy take?
It depends on you, your loss, and what you need. Some people come for a focused stretch of a few months to get through a specific hard season, while others stay longer to work through a loss that runs deep. There is no set timeline you are expected to meet. We check in along the way to make sure the work still fits where you are.
Do you offer grief therapy online?
We do. We provide secure, HIPAA-compliant online therapy to anyone located in Illinois, so you can grieve from a space that feels safe to you. Many people find online sessions easier during grief, when leaving the house or sitting in a waiting room feels like too much. In-person sessions at our Wheaton office are always available too.
Do you accept insurance for grief therapy?
We are in network with Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO, Aetna PPO, and Cigna PPO. UnitedHealthcare coverage varies by clinician, so whether you can use it depends on who you work with. Our intake team will verify your benefits before your first session and let you know which therapists are in network for your plan. You can also use an HSA card or pay out of pocket. Visit our Fees & Insurance page for details.
How do I get started?
The first step is a free 15-minute intake call. You can request an appointment online or call us at (630) 447-8818. We will learn a little about what you are carrying, answer your questions, and match you with a therapist who fits. There is no pressure and no commitment in that first call.
Ready to get started?
A free 15-minute call with our care team. We'll listen, answer your questions, and help you figure out your next step. In-person sessions in Wheaton and online therapy across Illinois.
Meet our therapists
The right fit matters. Get to know our therapists, their backgrounds, specialties, and how they work.
Visit us in Wheaton
Our office is located near the southeast corner of Manchester Road and County Farm Road, at 128 S County Farm Road, Suite C, Wheaton. We also offer online therapy across Illinois.
Address
Panahi Counseling, PC
128 S County Farm Rd, Suite C
Wheaton, IL 60187
(630) 447-8818